EM

Take a chillpill and chill the fuck down. I know that it might sounds rough, but it isn't. The way we live, love and work as people are today filled with so much stress. We care about everything more than we care about the happiness in our life, everything in this matter are all the problems that we're facing on a daily base. This is why we need to chill, relax and enjoy life instead of stressing out about all does things that we can not predict and we can not handle over night. Sometimes as humans we need to have some faith in our life, have some faith in the fact that things will figure itself out in the end, have faith in other people to clean up their own mess so their mess doesn't become ours.
Why is it that we tend to hate more then we love? That we tend to suffer more then we enjoy?
My life is not an easy life to live, but its' a damn good one!
I have problems, I face problems everyday, I have problems haunting me from my past and I know for damn sure that problem's will fall into my life in the future. I had a long conversation to my friend Nana today at SB, over a cup of coffee - why is it that it is so much easier to be unhappy then it is to be happy?

In my life I struggle with many things, emotionally and physically, but it is my choice to keep this part of my life as one factor, not a life style. My life is not a problem, my life is a great thing. Not because I sit around on my ass all day, waiting for happiness to fly into my heart and give me purple wings of happy drugs. No because I choose to be happy. I believe that in every persons life there is always at least one thing to be happy about - it might be hard to find for some people, but I promise that it is always there. So I choose to focus on the good things in life, instead of steering blind into a black hole of questions - even if 10 bad things happens to you, 1 good thing will always come out of it - so why don't focus on that?
I don't believe that happiness is how much you have or what you have - I believe that happiness is what you do of what you got.

And I have a millions of great things in my life and if it comes down to nothing I will always have my shoes and if it comes down to the day I have to sell my shoes to feed myself, I can be happy over the fact that a nice lady or a sexy transvestite with small feet finally got some really nice Steve Madden heals.
So why don't we all stop suffering, why don't we all just jump up from black trash holes and scream out our happiness? Because you are your own happy maker, no one will make you happy unless you believe yourself that you deserve it - and the day you deserve it is the day you will make it happen yourself.
How can you make another person happy if you don't live happy yourself? Problems happens, low points hit you - that happens to everyone but it doesn't define happiness. Happiness is who you are while dealing with it, peacefulness is not the feeling you feel when you do not face the hard life. Peaceful is what you are when you are in the middle of things and still see yourself clearly and when we come to the point where we know in our hearts that happiness is what we deserve and actively go after our own happiness is the day when can fight our ghosts and find peace.
So make peace with yourself - that way life will become easier, that way, you can struggle but still enjoy the pleasure in life.
Our problems doesn't make us people, it is the people we are, struggling with these problems that define our characters.

Take a chillpill - chill the fuck down - life is a great thing, so enjoy it because for all that I know, we only get one life and it's one of the kind and it's your responsibility to do the best of it - you own it, so make it happen! Everyday can be your last, play life before life play you - take a chillpill and have some faith, I promise, how hard things might come down on you - things always gets better in the end, and that puts a smile and peaceful mindset to my life.

love more then you hate.
Enjoy more then you suffer.
Treat other people the way you want other people to treat yourself.
Don't make life harder then it is - because it will backfire and life will get harder on you.
it's your life, treat it the way you want your life to treat you.


love, em.